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Episode 8: Lovers - HOW TO CREATE LONG LASTING LOVE

Published Wednesday, December 18, 2024

Welcome back to My Mum's a Sex Therapist! This week, we’re addressing an essential topic: how to see your partner as a lover, make long-term relationships last, and cultivate desire. Whether you're single, newly coupled, or have been together for years, this episode is for you.

Drawing on her 10,000+ hours of therapy experience, Jacqueline discusses common issues couples face and stresses the importance of cultivating desire and growing together. Through client case studies, she illustrates how couples can grow apart if they aren’t conscious of the brain’s tendency to become accustomed to—or complacent with—the people around them.

The hosts explore the necessity of attention and intention, developing self-awareness and awareness of each other, and creating time and space to fill your days with intentional moments that enhance love and connection, whatever that looks like for you

In our *Erotic Moments* segment, Jacqueline shares a profound energetic experience from her Bali Couples retreat, while Claude recounts an unexpected moment of connection with strangers while traveling with their partner.

This episode focuses on cultivating long-lasting love and provides listeners with practical tools to explore their truths.

Plus, we’re answering your burning questions:
With the non-linear approach, how do you know when to stop? My husband has a hairy back and I’ve asked him to wax it, but he says I should love him as he is. Please help.
I know we need sex therapy, but my partner thinks we should be able to fix it ourselves. How can I convince him?

Tune in and let’s get loved up!

If you want more of Jacqueline and Claude, head over to their instagram page @mymumsasextherapist, @nottclaude and @Jacqueline.hellyer.

Jacqueline’s Website https://www.jacquelinehellyer.com/

Jacqueline’s retreats https://www.jacquelinehellyer.com/lovelife-retreats

Our intro and outro music was created By Paul Searls. You can find more of him at https://thesoftlights.com/

This podcast was edited, produced and co-hosted by Claude. You can find them on instagram @nottclaude

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Episode 7: Your relationship is like a tripod - HOW TO BUILD A STRONG, LASTING CONNECTION.

Published Thursday, December 05, 2024

Welcome back to My Mum's a Sex Therapist! This week, we’re shifting gears from the sexual to the relational. Whether you’re in a relationship, looking for one, or simply curious about the secrets to deep, lasting connections, this episode is your guide.

Jacqueline introduces a simple yet powerful metaphor: your relationship is like a tripod, and all three legs need to be strong and balanced. The legs? Logistics, friendship, and lovers. We break down each one—how they function, why they matter, and what happens when one is wobbly.

We also dive into the fascinating science of love, exploring how our hearts emit the strongest electromagnetic fields of any organ and how this energy fuels connection. Jacqueline shares how subtle shifts in our interactions can magnify love, turning it into a potent life force that strengthens every aspect of your relationship.

In this week’s Erotic Moments segment:

  • Jacqueline reflects on a tarot reading that pushed her to break through societal taboos and embrace her role as a sexual role model. She recounts a transformative, full-body orgasmic experience that lasted minutes.
  • Claude shares a tender moment of connection with their dog, leading Jacqueline to illuminate how intimacy and love aren’t confined to romantic relationships—they’re present in every interaction, if we’re open to them.

Plus, we’re answering your burning questions:

  • What’s an example of non-linear lovemaking?
  • Should I masturbate if I’m having regular sex?
  • Is spanking inherently demeaning?

This episode is packed with insights and tools to help you cultivate a relationship that’s not just strong but overflowing with love and intimacy.

Tune in and learn how to love—deeper, better, and with more intention


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If you want more of Jacqueline and Claude, head over to their instagram page @mymumsasextherapist, @nottclaude and @Jacqueline.hellyer. 

Jacqueline’s Website https://www.jacquelinehellyer.com/ 

Jacqueline’s retreats https://www.jacquelinehellyer.com/lovelife-retreats 

Our intro and outro music was created By Paul Searls. You can find more of him at https://thesoftlights.com/


This podcast was edited, produced and co-hosted by Claude. You can find them on instagram @nottclaude

Sex Playlists 

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Episode 6: The Truth - MALE BODIES

Published Wednesday, November 27, 2024

Welcome back to My Mum's a Sex Therapist! This week, we’re diving headfirst into a topic often left unspoken: male bodies. Whether you’ve got one, love one, or are just curious about WTF is going on down there, this episode is for you.

Drawing on her 10,000+ hours of therapy experience, Jacqueline unpacks the truth about men—beyond the stereotypes. Far from being sex-crazed maniacs, men are often less sexual than women and just as emotionally complex. We explore the crushing societal and relational pressures placed on men, the historical timeline of male liberation versus female, and why this generation holds the keys to unraveling centuries of repression.

We’re tackling everything from the limits of male self-expression to the unspoken burdens men carry—and yes, we’re going there on penis myths, "the small man’s revenge," and why size really doesn’t matter when it comes to intimacy.

In our Erotic Moments segment, Jacqueline shares an unforgettable "spanky wanky" moment from her latest online course shoot, as well as a deeply impactful personal experience. Meanwhile, Claude opens up about the complexities of non-monogamy, shedding light on how jealousy can be a tool for growth and connection when handled with care.

This episode is all about breaking free from shame, busting myths, and giving men (and everyone who loves them) the tools to explore their truth.

Plus, we’re answering your burning questions:

What do men actually find attractive?

How can you navigate premature or delayed ejaculation?

And don’t miss the exclusive pod discount on our new men’s course—it’s your chance to level up your love life, no matter what’s in your pants. Tune in and let’s get real about the truth behind male bodies!

Online Course for Men! Use POD at checkout for your discount! https://www.jacquelinehellyer.com/mens-sexual-mastery-course 

If you want more of Jacqueline and Claude, head over to their instagram page @mymumsasextherapist, @nottclaude and @Jacqueline.hellyer. 

Jacqueline’s Website https://www.jacquelinehellyer.com/ 

Jacqueline’s retreats https://www.jacquelinehellyer.com/lovelife-retreats 

Our intro and outro music was created By Paul Searls. You can find more of him at https://thesoftlights.com/

This podcast was edited, produced and co-hosted by Claude. You can find them on instagram @nottclaude

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Episode 5: The Truth – FEMALE BODIES ARE SEXUAL PLEASURE MACHINES

Published Wednesday, November 20, 2024

Welcome back to My Mum's a Sex Therapist! This week, we’re diving into a topic sexology has too often ignored: the incredible power of the female body. Jacqueline takes us on a fascinating exploration of why female bodies are not just sexual but profoundly more sexual than their male counterparts. With more erogenous zones, greater capacity for pleasure, and a wide spectrum of orgasms, the female body is a marvel of sexual responsiveness.
We break down ancient Taoist perspectives on the vagina, including the concept of the “three gates” of female sexuality, and discuss the evolutionary advantages of embracing this innate power. Jacqueline also shares insights into how societal misconceptions and patriarchal narratives have misrepresented female pleasure for generations—and how we can reclaim it.
In our Erotic Moments segment, the hosts get personal: Claude opens up about the intimate link between music and libido, while Jacqueline reflects on transformative stories from her recent couples retreat.
This episode also addresses listener questions, tackling topics like overcoming religious trauma surrounding sexuality, solo orgasms versus partnered pleasure, and how to integrate tantric practices into everyday life.
It’s not just a conversation—it’s a call to action. This episode celebrates the female body as a vessel for love, bonding, and higher-order connection, empowering AFAB listeners to embrace their full potential without shame. Packed with practical advice, myth-busting, and liberation for all genders, this is one episode you can’t miss!

If you want more of Jacqueline and Claude, head over to their Instagram page @mymumsasextherapist, @nottclaude and @Jacqueline.hellyer.

Jacqueline’s Website https://www.jacquelinehellyer.com/

Jacqueline’s retreats https://www.jacquelinehellyer.com/lovelife-retreats

Our intro and outro music was created By Paul Sears. You can find more of him at https://thesoftlights.com/

This podcast was edited, produced and co-hosted by Claude. You can find them on instagram @nottclaude

Sex Playlists
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Episode 4: The History of Sex - WHY OUR SOCIETY IS SO SEXUALLY DYSFUNCTIONAL

Published Wednesday, November 13, 2024

Welcome back to My Mum's a Sex Therapist! In this episode, we’re digging into the fascinating history of sex and how our society ended up so tangled in sexual dysfunction. Jacqueline takes us on a journey through time, showing how the dawn of agriculture and the rise of war changed everything about our sexual dynamics. Starting at the roots of human history, she explores how our ancient ancestors developed deeply sexual, love centered lifestyles. Early humans thrived in matrilineal societies that worshipped the Earth Mother—but as we moved toward land ownership and patriarchal structures, control over women became a social obsession. Who could prove paternity? And how did that reshape our cultures? Jacqueline’s insights reveal how these shifts still impact us today, and why it’s up to this generation to unwind centuries of sexual repression. We explore sex as an innate tool for human bonding and how true intimacy can lead us to profound, higher-order experiences. In our weekly segment Erotic Moments, we go deeper into the hosts' lives: Claude shares a personal connection to the ocean, while Jacqueline describes a powerful meditation experience that recharged her creative energies. From prehistory to modern times, this episode is all about giving listeners the freedom to explore themselves without shame. We tackle listener questions on topics like swinging, libido changes in menopause, and tantric approaches to sex. Don’t miss out—this episode is packed with historical insight, practical tools, and thought-provoking conversation!

If you want more of Jacqueline and Claude, head over to their Instagram page @mymumsasextherapist, @nottclaude and @Jacqueline.hellyer.

Jacqueline’s Website https://www.jacquelinehellyer.com/

Jacqueline’s retreats https://www.jacquelinehellyer.com/lovelife-retreats

Our intro and outro music was created By Paul Sears. You can find more of him at https://thesoftlights.com/

This podcast was edited, produced and co-hosted by Claude. You can find them on instagram @nottclaude

Sex Playlists
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Episode 3: Non-Linear Lovemaking - SEX IS LIKE A PICNIC

Published Tuesday, November 05, 2024

Welcome back to My Mum's a Sex Therapist! In this episode, we dive into Non-Linear Lovemaking—a fresh concept from Jacqueline Hellyer that challenges the old playbook. Forget the traditional bases and routines; instead, we explore sex as a dynamic, moment-by-moment experience that partners create together.
For many of us, growing up meant minimal guidance beyond abstinence talks and porn. Through our weekly segment, Erotic Moments, we peel back the layers on what it means to connect authentically. Claude opens up about a recent injury that led to a surprisingly embodied experience, while Jacqueline shares highlights from her time at a three-day tango festival in Melbourne.
From solo exploration to the nuances of partnered intimacy, we break down how to tune into your desires, communicate them openly, and bring a sense of playfulness into the process of discovery. We The hosts cover the impact of non-linear approaches, the role of tone, and practical tips for feeling at ease—whether alone or with a partner. We also tackle listener questions on a wide range of topics, including sexual trauma, IVF, and discovering full-body pleasure zones.
Don't miss this episode—it’s packed with insights, tools, and conversation that make it our most helpful yet!

If you want more of Jacqueline and Claude, head over to their Instagram page @mymumsasextherapist, @nottclaude and @Jacqueline.hellyer.

Jacqueline’s Website https://www.jacquelinehellyer.com/

Jacqueline’s retreats https://www.jacquelinehellyer.com/lovelife-retreats

Our intro and outro music was created By Paul Sears. You can find more of him at https://thesoftlights.com/

This podcast was edited, produced and co-hosted by Claude. You can find them on instagram @nottclaude

Sex Playlists
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Episode 2: Pleasure and Connection - HOW TO KNOW WHAT YOU WANT

Published Tuesday, October 29, 2024

Welcome back to My Mum's a Sex Therapist! In this episode, we’re diving into a big one: How to Know What You Want! Growing up with little more than abstinence talks and porn portrayals, most of us were left in the dark about navigating our sexuality. Through the weekly segment, Erotic Moments, the hosts peel back the layers of this topic.
Claude shares a recent intimate experience with friends, while Jacqueline recounts her unique journey into high-quality erotica production to fulfil a friend’s fantasy—an exploration that highlights the focus of the episode, pleasure and connection as well as a how-to-guide on checking in with your desires moment by moment.
From solo exploration to shared experiences, the hosts unpack how to get in touch with what you enjoy, how to communicate it, and the playful art of discovery with a partner. They discuss the dance of initiation, the influence of tone, and share real steps to feel more at ease in both solo and partnered settings. Finally, they answer some of the most-searched questions on sex, love, and intimacy, grounding the episode in pleasure and connection.

If you want more of Jacqueline and Claude, head over to their Instagram page @mymumsasextherapist, @nottclaude and @Jacqueline.hellyer

Jacqueline’s Website https://www.jacquelinehellyer.com/

Jacqueline’s retreats https://www.jacquelinehellyer.com/lovelife-retreats

Our intro and outro music was created By Paul Sears. You can find more of him at https://thesoftlights.com/

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This podcast was edited, produced and co-hosted by Claude. You can find them on instagram @nottclaude

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Episode 1: Meet Jacqueline and Claude

Published Monday, October 21, 2024

Episode 1 introduces the two hosts, Jacqueline and Claude, and the three segments of the podcast. We meet Jacqueline and Claude and are introduced to their accreditations, dynamic, and skill sets. The episode then progresses to the second segment where the hosts discuss the theme of the episode, and why we've made thispodcast. The third segment, myth-busting is where Claude presents two myths to bust: “you need to have an erection to have sex” and “lesbian sex isn't real”. Jacqueline uses her expertise and non-linear approach to sex to rewrite societal scripts.

If you want more of Jacqueline and Claude, head over to their instagram page @mymumsasextherapist, @nottclaude and @Jacqueline.hellyer.

Jacqueline’s Website https://www.jacquelinehellyer.com

Jacqueline’s retreats https://www.jacquelinehellyer.com/lovelife-retreats

Our intro and outro music was created By Paul Sears. You can find more of him at https://thesoftlights.com/

This podcast was edited, produced and co-hosted by Claude. You can find them on instagram @nottclaude

Sex Playlists
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"We used to fight constantly about sex, I never thought we'd find a way out. Then we found you and that's all changed. You're awesome!"

"Now we understand why you wanted us to attend one of your retreats. We learnt so much from you in private sessions, but doing your couples retreat has really taken us so much further and deeper. It’s been absolutely wonderful, far more transformative than we could ever have imagined."

"Thank you for a wonderful retreat. All the things we were worried about turned out to be no concern at all and all the things we were looking forward to turned out to be much better than we dreamed! We are still buzzing from the experience. "

"Luscious Woman has truly shifted my thinking, my life and me, in a wonderful direction. Thank you so much Jacqueline."

"This course has, after 29yrs of adolescent masturbatory style sex, been HUGE with some major penny-drops. I love your approach!"

"Thank-you for for so skillfully weaving my sexuality and spirituality back together. I now feel the way I’ve always wanted to feel."

"I really enjoyed all the loving energy in the room. I've certainly never experienced anything like it before. "

"We LOVED the retreat. You created a safe, adult, sexy space where we could be honest and open, exploring ourselves and the connection that exists in really different ways than we've ever been able to in the past. Your rich and sensitive holding of the spiritual side, and ease of its emergence as sexual energy - an energy to draw the other in and connect with - was really a gift and a beautiful model to offer. "

"You have such a fabulous gift for taking all the awkwardness out of sexuality and turning it into such a lovely and beautiful thing to embrace. "

"Seeing Jacqueline has been by far one of the best decisions we have made. Before seeking her help I was very sad about our situation. I am so happy to say that as a direct result of her thoughtful guidance we are in such a different and better place in our sex life."

"Working on the solution instead of the problem has taken me further forward then anything else I have tried."

"You’ve really helped me tap into something wonderful and powerful. I’ve discovered where I was letting myself down and have been enjoying 'filling in the blanks’."

"It’s been so good to find a book that tells us how to look after ourselves - not only how to look after the baby."

"You’re the first of many counsellors who really feels comfortable and is coming from a practical, understandable place. You've helped us find the key and it's really quite simple."

"I am personally so grateful for participating in Saturday's Tantric Lounge, connecting with a group of people with beautiful, fertile rich energy."

"What do I say to you for taking me on a magical adventure of discovery yet again? My most heartfelt thanks for an incredible Saturday night at The Tantric Lounge."

"Jacqueline, you are so extraordinarily professional. I’ve done a lot of courses in this area and yours are so far above the rest in terms of content and presentation."

"It's not a course, it's an awakening. It opens your eyes to what's possible as a couple."

"Taking Black Belt completely revolutionized my thinking about sex and has had a long lasting positive influence on my sex life."

"A really powerful, transformative experience. I feel I have reclaimed something precious and essential."

"I've just read your new book and I just want to say it is FABULOUS!! I'm so glad you wrote it and it is such a special and beautiful work I can't put it down!"

"We weren’t in a very good place. Reading Jacqueline’s book together made the world of difference and we’re stronger for it"

"I really enjoyed this book. It contains some great concepts that I’ve really been able to put into practice."

"This book is beautifully clear and succinct, a real treasure."

"We loved that this book is about simple fundamentals, not superficial tips and tricks."

"I'm so happy with ME, where I am and where we are as a couple. This is where I've been trying to get for so long and now I'm here! Thanks - you're the best!"

"It's been a deep, profound and subtle spiritual liberation. It's given me the freedom and empowerment to open up and allow myself to feel and to express how I feel, in every way. This feeling of liberation and love and power and openness pervades my whole life and how I live now, and I can see the effect it has on others too and how they respond to me. It's very subtle, but soooo powerful and wonderful. It feels like it is radiating out from the very core of my being and is an all encompassing love, so, very much including, but not just about, my sexual being."

"Thank you for your warm vibrant energy, enthusiasm and passion. You've given a recently fatigued man the tools to recover his mojo."

"We've just spent a wonderful weekend with Jacqueline. Her workshops are fun, informative, sensual, and in many ways deeply profound - the weekend brought us closer in ways we could never have imagined. Thank-you for filling up our love bank!"

"We really love coming to see you, as you offer us such support and have made a huge difference to our lives."

"I never expected the Luscious Woman Workshop to have such a dramatic change on how I view myself and how I now feel sexy, feminine and graceful. I've never said those words about myself before!"

"We want to thank you so very much for the most wonderful week in paradise, both literally and metaphorically. Having been to your workshops previously we knew for sure that we were in for a week of lusciousness, but our week with you in Bali was more gloriously luscious and inspiring than we could have imagined."

"Thank you for the weekend retreat - I greatly enjoyed and learned a lot at it. Your combination of spirituality and philosophy meeting is an inspiration."

"I've seen so many therapists but you're amazing! I come out of each session so much more self-aware and enlightened."

"Your program also seriously helped me understand my own male sexuality so much better. A big thank you for helping me with what I needed to hear! It is so awesome what you do, it is life changing for us on this end, and you are such a natural!"

"It was a really powerful, transformative experience. I feel I have reclaimed something precious and essential with the help of a group of loving, supportive women. It made me appreciate how much healing we can do as women when we come together and share our experiences."

"Thanks again for your brilliant life-changing support. "

"I felt so useless and alone after I had my baby, and forcing myself to have sex with my husband made it worse. This book has helped me see in little ways how I can enjoy being a mother and a wife - which means I can enjoy being me! Thank-you."

"We have noticed a real shift in our energies towards each other since seeing you, almost like switching from AM to FM radio, the difference is that noticeable."

"Thanks so much for a life changing five days! We were truly impacted and challenged beyond our expectations so thank you."

"You've changed the whole way I look at sex, now I feel so much more positive and free and empowered!"

"The Tantric Lounge has surpassed any expectations I had of attending such an event and I find myself feeling exhilarated from the experience to a whole new degree after each session."

"Thanks so much for a life changing weekend. I honestly mean it! I feel like a completely different person!!!!!"

"I really got what it means to come into my masculine sexual energy, with strength and confidence and no macho or aggression. Feels great! (And my wife is beaming!)"

"The opening up to my own sexuality and what it means for us as a couple has been way beyond my expectations. I’ve felt safe and loved the sense of playfulness and the choices we’ve had whether or how to participate. I go away hugely enriched."

"A massive thank you for all your guidance and wisdom. Your sex therapy played a very significant role in changing our lives forever."

"I wish we’d had this book when our first bub was born. But better late than never, it’s been a great help second time around!"

"I have had a really lovely shift and have felt subtle changes in my approach to myself and body. "

"Before meeting Jacqueline we were fumbling around in the dark, I couldn’t go the distance and this left my beloved underwhelmed. We were caught in the daily grind, were sexually frustrated and wanting a more satisfying experience. Since Jacqueline’s sex coaching our lovemaking has become light-hearted, our lives filled with romance, dating, petting, smooches. When we make love the time is intimate, fun, erotic, orgasmic and/or all of the above. We’ve never been happier, whole or as complete – and can’t thank you enough."

"I have to tell you that this experience has been life changing for me, and your wonderful loving work in helping us let go and come into ourselves made this life change such a warm comfortable natural process, that I can hardly remember what it was like before."

"I enjoyed doing this course immensely. The content is spot on and you rightly focus on the 'being' rather than the 'doing'. "

"Since Black Belt my partner has said that our sex life has turned 180 degrees, and that you are a miracle worker !"

"I don't think it is over-stating to say that I would call the course 'life changing'. In essence I believe it has been a major catalyst in deep healing, a fundamental shift in personal and spiritual growth, and lasting and evolving change in self confidence, body awareness, self acceptance and ongoing sexual exploration."

"We will always remember the weekend, we discovered so much together and shall keep learning with each other with the skills gained for a long time to come. Thank you for such a great experience."

"Thank-you for creating a safe space for us all to learn, grow and share. Absolutely essential for all women who want to thrive, not just survive."

"It’s made us realise how important it is to always be there for each other, to prioritise us, even though it’s so easy to be distracted."

"A huge thank you with all my heart for the unique and beautiful experience that you created for all of us on the weekend. It was such a magnificent experience and I am amazed at how much the Luscious Woman weekend boosted my confidence, I feel fantastic. What you give to others is such a beautiful gift you’re an inspiration to everyone around you."

"Thank-you for so deliciously weaving my sexually and spiritually together again, I now feel the way I’ve always wanted and known I could feel."

"Sex was just off the agenda and we’d lost connection. We couldn’t recommend this book more. It really will help"

"We had a fabulous time at the retreat. The surroundings, the people, and the teachings were all a blessing. It has taught us to explore new horizons in our love relationship and has brought our connection closer. We will be using all the techniques in the time to come as our sex life develops and improves. In fact, the results have been almost instantaneous!"

"The couples retreat is something every couple should do if they can. The course is refreshing, inspiring and gave our relationship a fun tool set to set us up for a joyful life together. It’s not just about sex (though that stuff was great), it debunks myths and starts a conversation that changed our relationship - definitely for the better. Jacqueline has a gift to make everyone feel comfortable. Don’t wait until there is a ‘problem’ - all relationships can be improved. Would recommend to all couples!"